I have to say at the start that people have different personalities, and consequently the kind of interaction that gives them satisfaction is a parameter that varies largely from person to person. I would like to divide people into two classes (neither exclusive nor exhaustive) - one who is extremely sure of what he wants to do, how he plans to do it, and what his opinions are on several issues. Such a person may be charachterised by an environment invariant measure - his thoughts and actions are seldom a function of where he is, or who he is keeping company with. Let us for the sake of simplicity call him a closed set. There is another class of persons, who are amenable (very highly) to draw inspiration from their surroundings. These surroundings mostly inlcude their sphere of interaction, available avenues for recreation and learning, etc. The latter person is in my opinion, one that I identify with closer. I should clarify at the outset, that this persona is NOT one who follows the herd, and has no mind of his own. This has more to do with the psychological metric known as Agreeableness (one of the Big 5 personality traits).
I find that my interests and curiosity are easily triggered by (interests/knowledge) of people i interact with. It is not up to you and I to categorize such behaviour under those broad clasifiers of good OR bad, but it may have its own merits and demerits on varying occassions. This ablity to inspire that a person has, has a very strong correlation with the interests and aptitude of the beneficiary of such inspiration. So, i value my peers very highly, especially those i like to interact with and consequently draw inspiriation , ideas from. Also, it is my humble belief that this interactive exchange of knowledge, ideas and more broadly perspective of opinion that we share - is mutual, and i feel very glad whenever i possess within me, the capacity to shed light on some topic, or obliviate my own ignorance on another.
A toast to all my friends, and a toast to the collective knowledge that we have helped each other attain and enrich.
cheers
(written a week ago i think, was too lazy to post )
Joy
11 months ago